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With dating agencies popping up all over the Internet
you begin to read more and more information about gold diggers -
women who try to take money from trustful and honest
men.
But let see how it works.
If a man, in the age group of 18-25 tries to find his
soulmate thru a dating service and his target are women who are from
the same age group, just how many gold-diggers do you think he may
attract? Most likely, none, zero, nada!
Let's look at another age group. A 58 year old man
looking for his soul-mate in his respective age group, 45 to 55
years old. How many gold-diggers do you think he could attract with
his advertisement placed at the dating agency? Again, most likely,
none!
Now, what about a man who is 58 years old who is
looking at finding a woman from the former group, the 18 to
25-year-olds. Bingo!!
His ad, at the same dating agency will be a magnet for
attracting gold-diggers.
Now, how can that be? Both men are using the same
dating agency. Both men are trying to attract a woman from the same
age group, yet the younger man will most likely not have a problem
finding a nice, sweet young lady but the older man will a
gold-digger/scammer. And what is the most interesting is that the
most sweetest girl for young men can turn to the gold-digger for
older men! Why is that?
The answer is very simple.
First you need to understand that many men become
vain, especially if they are physically fit and look much younger.
This vanity leads them to think that the can attract women who are
very much younger than they are and these young women will be
attracted to them for their youthful appearances. Honestly, these
men can attract these very young women but not for the reasons their
egos and vanities have implied.
What sort of relationship, do you think, this older
man-younger woman could possibly have? Is this older man into rap
and hip-hop music? Does this very young woman have the
sophistication to understand fine wine? What about understanding
politics, world affairs, arts and sciences? Could this very young
girl have that amount of sophistication in her very young world? How
about going out and dancing and partying all night? Do you think
this older man could really keep up just because he might look fit
and in shape?
Ok, lets say this 58-year old guy does connect with a
young woman that is between 18 and 25. Let's assume that they have
married. This young lady loves her older man but is she completely
happy? We are pretty sure, he is. He has gotten his "boy-toy" but is
she getting what she needs or is she missing something in her life
even though she is in love with this 58-year -old man? This very
young woman is probably missing many of the activities and
adventures in life that her age group is just beginning to
experience.
So, what's the compensation for this missing part of
her life?
In the eyes of these young women it could be many
different things. A position in society, beautiful clothes,
diamonds, jewelry, a expensive car, money, a nice home and/or a
myriad of other things.
Should you judge this woman badly? Personally, I
don't. Why? Because that is what her "sugar daddy wants" and that is
what he has gotten, a "boy-toy"!
Just think about it.
First of all this man is old enough to be this young
woman's father if not the grandfather and to keep his little girl,
he really needs to be "sweet " to her. "Daddy", in this case is
going to do everything he can to keep his "little" girl and this
young woman learns very quickly how to get her way, just like a
spoiled child.
On the whole, we look at these young women as
"gold-diggers", but are they really? In these cases, I don't think
so. I think it is more of a child wanting things for "daddy" to
provide, especially since she is not around her peers, she fills the
void.
So, what is the advice for men, who don t want to be
called "Sugar Daddy" and not to attract "gold-diggers" ? Be real
and realistic.
Quit looking for a child and begin looking for a
woman.
Realize this, if you still want a "child/wife", be
prepared to be her "sugar daddy". Provide for your young beauty,
marry her and live happily ever after.
You and your young wife should enjoy your fairy tale
relationship... while it lasts.
Marina Smiley
- Author of "The Shocking Truth about Russian
Brides" |