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A growing percentage of females openly admit to
prefering the company of an older guy on a date, rather than same
age or younger. The present day Sugar Daddy is a far cry from his
20th Century counterpart, who would be more inclined to keep such a
relationship totally private, enjoying clandestine meetings at
secretive venues. Today, an older guy will display his younger
partner openly, publicly and with pride.
Here are ten good
reasons why sugar daddy dating is becoming more and more popular
within the online dating arena. The comparisons are based on age
difference relationships with long term in mind.
1. Generally speaking, a female
will feel safer in the company of a more mature sugar daddy type
date, especially on first meeting. He is more inclined to suggest
coffee or dinner in a crowded venue as a first meeting place, or be
quite happy for her to suggest a locale where she would feel
comfortable. Her ease-of-mind, during that first date in particular,
will be high on his agenda.
2. Although there are exceptions
to every rule, women dating the older sugar daddy types notice the
higher level of respect shown to them during such relationships. The
emphasis on romance overshadowing his desire to get her into bed is
often more apparent. He is less likely to be interested in a
superficial encounter.
3. The prospects of a long term
relationship are usually very real, his playing around days are
obliterated in the past. His mature mindset now focused on the many
other aspects and indeed the benefits of being in an adoring long
term union.
4. The 'sugar daddy meets sugar
baby' relationship is often centered around the male's need to
protect and show support towards his younger partner. Many
miscontrue this notion as a 'sex for favors' arrangement. Yet in his
mind, sex is far from being a pre-requisite. His pride would be
severely dented if he thought for a moment that the sexual
encounters were brought about as a direct result of his
demonstrations of kindness.
5. Loyalty too will be of great
importance. His desire to protect and support will be extremely
focused, and once he discovers his belle, his eye is less likely to
be turned in other directions. The strength of the relationship is
an important issue and he will defend that
vigorously.
6. Baggage can often be a
problem in any new relationship. Whether it be family
resposibilities, ex partners or even financial issues, baggage from
the past can often deflower an otherwise perfect opportunity. The
older, more mature male is less likely to allow external issues to
spoil the possibilities and will often take his partner's external
resposibilities on board with grace, understanding and a positive
attitude.
7. Sexually, although not quite
the opportunist he used to be, his need to delight and satisfy will
oftentimes be stronger than seeking his own satisfaction. He will
take time to seduce her mind, his idea of foreplay has evolved way
beyond 'fumble on the couch' status. The aftermath of those intimate
encounters too will be loving and warm, with pillow talk becoming a
tender part of the process.
8. Romance is an important
aspect of any dating relationship, but a sugar daddy will pay much
more attention to the romantic suggestion. This is not simply
manifested with flowers, gifts and material things, but the hand
holding, public shows of affection or little notes left discreetly
for her to find.
9. On the maturity front, it is
accepted that a female is far more mature the a male at any given
age. Therefore it makes sense that she would have more in common
with an older guy than one her own age. They will hold each others
attention for longer periods, they will have more interests to share
and they will be much closer as friends within the overall
plan.
10. The genuine sugar daddy will enjoy
spoiling and pampering his young lover and take every opportunity
available to make her feel like a princess. Not necessarily by way
of showering her with material things, but generally taking care of
her needs. Making her feel that she is important to him, loved..
cherished.. protected.
The 1920's version
of the sugar daddy would typically shower his young lover with gifts
and often cash, as a 'reward' for her company or sexual favors.
These days the arrangement is centered around a relationship, a
solid bond between two willing partners. The spoiling, pampering and
protection satisfying both his need to give, and her need to
receive. This twenty-first century sugar daddy sugar baby
arrangement can often develop into a powerful union of mind body and
soul, leaving the conventional relationship in the dust.
Trevor Taylor
- Sugar Daddy Haven - The #1 Sugar
Daddy Dating Site
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