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The Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby
relationship has for many years been regarded as a source of
amusement to those who have never experienced the benefit. Yes,
everyone loves to be spoiled and pampered, but is it really
necessary to include the age gap as part of the package?
It's true to say that many young
men, on reaching the age in their lives when pubescence takes
control of their lateral thinking, find themselves fantasizing about
older females, often twice their own age and upwards. For instance
it's quite common for young men still at school age, testosterone
flying everywhere, to have the 'hots' for one or more of their
female teachers, neighbor's wife or even a pal's mother.
The
consensus of opinion reached by many is that the attraction by a
young male to a more mature woman is based around the fact that she
has experience.. a working knowledge of the male anatomy, and a
sexual prowess not to be discovered so easily in a younger woman his
own age.
Although there are exceptions, in the majority of
cases, his secret lusting remains just that, and goes unnoticed by
the older female who still regards him as a young student or friend
of her son.
Howerever, as the young male grows older, and
gains his own level of experience, so his desire for the mature
female wanes, and on reaching middle age, will frequently have his
head 'turned' by a much younger woman.
All this is in stark
contrast to the attraction patterns noted in the life of the female
of the species. Whereas the young girl, on first becoming sexually
aware, will hone her intimacy skills on the younger male, but she
will often be less interested in him as she gets older, turning her
attention to the more mature men that cross her path. But why is
this the case?
The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon, whilst oftentimes
the source of amusement for some, can in fact develop into quite a
powerful relationship, with loyalty, romance and chivalry being key
factors in the union. Many women note that a guy around her own age
or younger, will not show her the same level of respect, or pay as
much attention to detail that his older counterpart will be inclined
to display.
It's a valid point that women are more mature
than men at any given age, and its not surprising that by the time
she reaches her mid-thirties, she already feels more compatible with
a male ten or twenty years her senior, and left guys her own age,
far behind both mentally and emotionally. Her more mature partner is
more equipped to seduce her mind as well as her body. He will be
less afraid of displaying public affection, holding her hand or
opening doors for her. Happy to allow the whole world see how proud
he is to be by her side.
Sexually too, he may not be an
athlete between the sheets, yet he will feel the need to ensure his
girl is pleasured well as a priority over seeking to satisfy his own
desires. Her younger lover will no doubt give her "the best
seventeen seconds she's ever had", before raiding her fridge in
search of a beer. Whereas in the case of her older guy, the foreplay
will begin in the restaurant with witty flirting, eye contact and
laughter. Later they will enjoy the afterglow together, the passion
may have subsided but the emotion still very much alive.
The
term 'Sugar Daddy' was first used in the early 1920's and is
described in the WordWeb Dictionary as "A wealthy older man who
gives a young person expensive gifts in return for friendship or
intimacy". The sugar in this term alluded to the sweetening role of
the gifts, and daddy to the age difference between the pair. There
is no mention of love, romance or indeed a relationship in the
dictionary description of the term, yet it is a fact that women are
often attracted, even turned on by men of substance or power. Is it
so inconceivable then, that a younger woman could find happiness in
a relationship with a guy old enough to be her father, who has so
much more to offer her than money and gifts?
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